moving the goalposts

i’m coming to the realisation that i can’t tackle everything all at once. it’s impossible to dedicate appropriate resources to large numbers of tasks. ive been trying to manage so many concurrent changes that i am basically just half-assing all … Continue reading

am i… a landmine?

so i’ve been delving into japanese mental health subcultures lately, mostly because i’ve been hearing about menhera and jirai kei in my circles and i’ve come across the term “landmine” used both as a self-descriptor and as a pejorative. for … Continue reading

i’m crazy, got a doctor’s note

one thing that i think most people are acutely aware of is that mental health matters. whether you look at it through one lens or another, the conclusions are all the same: without taking care of our mental health, taking … Continue reading